10 quotes that motivate me

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. -Viktor E. Franklin The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it. -Jordan Belfort Let the improvement of yourself keep you so busy that... Continue Reading →

Prolonged self-hatred

Hi! I apologize for the lack of post the last weeks, I have travelled through europe for two weeks and decided to focus on the experiences, and give myself some time "off" writing. This is some thoughts I threw together into a text quickly, but hopefully you understand my train of thought. The more you... Continue Reading →

Censoring the female body

We often discuss the dangers of exposing children and teens to heavily photoshopped and unattainable standards of how a beautiful women should look, and how this can hinder the growth of a good self esteem and confidence. I know I, myself often compare myself to others, whether that be grades, or how they look, and... Continue Reading →

Accidental prejudice

I live in Norway where most citizens are A-OK with gays, even the laws are on our side. Even though I believe I, as a gay woman, have it great here and am supported by most, I have picked up some attitudes and prejudice that many aren’t aware that they have, and they really don't... Continue Reading →

1+1 = 3

There are many ways you can structure and define a relationship, the idea I apply to my life is “1+1=3" not in the way of making a baby, but in the way that two individual people come together and create a separate entity, which is the relationship.   I’ve found some images/badly created one in order to illustrate this... Continue Reading →

Your identity is valid

Earlier this year I and a group of others were asked to choose three words to describe ourselves, as I have a handy tagline I decided to use the same way to describe myself in this instance “a lazy, gay, feminist.” I was told that there was more to me than my sexuality as if... Continue Reading →

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