I”ll try again next year

So, 2018 didn’t exactly turn out the way you had planned or hoped for? Maybe you said the same for the years before too, the grass is always greener on the other side - or in this case after the bells ring in and the new year begins. Still, each year we cling on to... Continue Reading →

The productive comfortzone

A repost from my old blog, abirdjustflies. “Magic happens when you step outside your comfort zone.” “Life happens outside your comfort zone.” A saying with many different variations, said by many different people. Still, the takeaway is the same. To reach your goals, to live your best life, you must step out of your comfort... Continue Reading →

Independent to a fault

I strongly identify as a strong, independent female who don't need no man (and as a lesbian don't really want one either). Another way to describe me is; independent to a fault, and I believe others could describe themselves in similar words. In a society that praises individuality, perseverance, and never needing to rely on... Continue Reading →

The extra mile

"If you are able to go the extra mile, you weren't going the distance to begin with." - Randal One idea I've found to be widely accepted is the notion that you can give something a 110%, or go the extra mile. My thinking on this differs a bit, I believe that if you are... Continue Reading →

The explainer and the motivator

What makes a good life? Is it how much money you earn, how big your house is, how many followers you have? Or is it the relationships you build, your experiences, your own physical and mental well-being? Figuring out what you need in order to live a good life is a personal process, which I... Continue Reading →

Pre-fabricated vs. individual

Since childhood, I have been a rebellious kid who often denied the norms, customs, and values we as a society share. Treating culture as a candy-bag is something I've always done, picking out the things that resonate with me, and discarded the rest. This way I only consume what reflects my authentic self, instead of... Continue Reading →

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